Have you seen this post in your newsfeed “I’m Facebook housecleaning, and if you can see this then you’ve made the cut!”? Whew! Dodged that bullet, right? LOL. Like you cared.
So someone you know is getting rid of the friendships that they’ve accepted over the years that they feel are of no value to them today.
Now, dare I ask, WHY?
Whatever the reason, this person felt it was time to take action and delete them from eyesight.
Now, I dare ask, are there some people in your life that you see daily OR on social media that you KNOW need to be deleted, but not just simply deleted, ah yes, they need the big bad BLOCKED?
Fortunately, my friends, you have me and with this list, if they fit, well time to tell ‘em to kick rocks!
A little harsh I know but... jeeze... come ‘on guys.
If all they do is complain about how horrible their life is or post constantly how so and so is so mean to them and they just can’t catch a break, then what they are actually doing is feeding off of your empathy to fulfill their own narcissism.
These are people who your friends talk about as if their life is sooooo great. They “party” all weekend and can’t wait to tell you all about it.
However the lasting effects on your perception of reality will be so skewed and could make you resent your current situation or relationship.
If you have it, if you’ve done it, then sure enough they have also... but better!
To the curb with this dead weight!
These are people that openly brag about cheating the system. They are the “MLM’ers” that you absolutely hate and would not admit to being friends with.
You know that you will be seen as guilty by association as long as you are friends with them.
You all know at least one of these types of people, if not a few.
These people will talk you into circles, force you to accept their point of view, and MAKE YOU QUESTION YOUR OWN SANITY.
They will somehow get you to do thing you otherwise would never do, accept situations that you normally would not tolerate, and drain the ever-loving life out of your body.
More than likely after reading this, you have already rattled off a few people in your mind that fit one, or God forbid, a few of these types.
If you don’t really like them and they are not a family member, spouse (uh hem, counseling suggested), or friend that you just can’t sever the apron string from, then stop wasting your time.
Your time is valuable and it should be spent on those who lift YOU up and appreciate your friendship.
Detach the bloodsuckers and let them find a new host to destroy. To letting 'em go!