As women, we want to do it all. We want to work so we feel independent; we want to be the perfect wife to our husband so we clean the house and do the laundry; we want to be supermom, so we make breakfast, pack lunches, and plan healthy family dinners; we take our kids to school, pick them up, take them to afterschool activities, help them with homework, throw them in the bath and tuck them into bed. Now, in maintaining our perfect wife status, at the end of each day, we want to be perfectly groomed and in lingerie, awaiting our husband in bed, full of energy and ready for some lovin’.
As a real woman, in the real world, there are more days where I simply want to lay down and sleep, undisturbed, and un-wanted. I love the idea of being able to do it all, however, I simply cannot keep up with the demands that I place on myself. I am simply not in the mood. My thoughts during the day are not “sexy thoughts,” they are “focused on the task at hand thoughts.”
I'm sure you're probably feeling the same way I did, but I learned some really simple ways to change my daily thoughts and actions so that I could feel sexy all the time. Feeling sexy every day has taken away the daily stress of life and replaced it with a daily zest for life.
Here are some ways in which I turned my everyday routine into a passionate love affair, worthy of a romance novel.
Remind yourself of the last time you were intimate with your partner. Focus on that, and that only. Remember it in every detail possible. You'll want to revisit that encounter again and again. For women, the more turned on the mind is, the more turned on the body is.
These simple ideas will transform your ordinary day into an exceptionally sexy day, and at the end of it, you will be waiting and ready to meet your partner’s advances with renewed vigor. Get your sexy back!